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Инстаграм дня: яркий мир материнства без фильтров
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Инстаграм дня: яркий мир материнства без фильтров

Если вы давно читаете НЭН, то знаете, что мы без ума от австралийских мам — именно среди них процент развеселых леди с саркастичным взглядом на жизнь особенно велик. Так вот, мы нашли еще одну прекрасную представительницу этого лагеря мам.

If i look disheveled it’s because i am 🙈 this was me today at about 6:30pm, and we were just about to leave a first birthday party. We battled to drag the big kids away from the beach park, Delilah was going on 4 hours awake so i was calming her with some of mamas milkshakes 🍼 and i was tired and drained. So disheveled i am! Oh and this was after my morning where i locked myself out the back while the big kids were in their car seats in the car in the garage and Delilah was sitting in her bouncer in the lounge room screaming. Yep, it’s been one of those days my friends, one of those days 🤯 #therealparenthood . . . . . #mytinymoments #myeverydaymagic #thatauthenticfeeling #thewomoms #ig_motherhood #inspiremyinstagram #inbeautyandchaos #pursuepretty #postthepeople #aquietstyle #alittlebeautyeveryday #stopdropandmom #darlingmovement #findmoments #feelfreefeed #finditliveit #feauturememozi #feelthefeelings #heart_imprint #holdthemoments #verilymoment #visualcrush #bicfp #bestofmom #nothingisordinary #momlife #mom_hub #mymotherhood #ohheymama

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У Элизы Ноулз из Перта трое детей — две дочери, Табита и Делайла, и сын Раферти. Фотографии в ее аккаунте @eliseknowels рассказывают историю ее материнства, брака, быта — обычной семейной жизни. Она пишет о вылазках в кафе в компании детей, о кормлении грудью, о домашних делах.

Недавно, буквально через пару дней после наступления нового года, она написала пост о том, как боролась с несовершенством своего тела. По признанию Элизы, всю жизнь она была недовольна тем, как выглядит, постоянно ограничивала себя в еде и ходила на изнурительные тренировки. Теперь, спустя три беременности и столько же родов, она встала на путь принятия себя — со всеми недостатками, которые являются таковыми, только если смотреть на них через призму нереалистичных стандартов.

Do you know what it feels like to have hated something about yourself for so long that it’s hard to remember a time where this wasn’t the case? I do. For as long as I can remember I’ve hated my body. Actually, there was a time I remember where I didn’t hate how I looked but that was during a time where mentally & psychologically I was so unhealthy, so fixated on losing weight. I’d wake up early, go to the gym, return home to run the dog, count calorie after calorie ensuring to only eat the minimum. I was at my skinniest in my adult life & liked how my body looked but I wasn’t happy, I was miserable, it consumed me. I remember going to Europe with my hubby & being so worried about gaining weight so didn’t indulge in any of the usual delights; no chocolate croissants, no gelato, no cheese fondue, no strudel, the list goes on. I remember being so upset that none of the hotels we stayed in had scales which meant I couldn’t weigh myself. One day while walking the streets in Vienna we came across scales where you can pay to weigh & I was so excited, but it was -5 degrees & I had so many layers on & I didn’t want to weigh myself in them because it would add weight. So there I stood outdoors in Vienna stripping down to the bare minimum just to weigh myself. How sad is that. My husband will still to this day say I ruined that trip, & he’s right, I did. Fast forward to today, a new year a new approach. I’m trying embrace what god gave me & be kind to myself. This body bore three children, it nourished two & continues to nourish a third. It’s squishy & bumpy in some places but has gained muscle in others as a result of forever carry those children. I may not be at a point where I’m in love with what stares back at my in the mirror but I’m at a point where I realise that enough is enough. I will no longer beat myself up, I will no longer body shame myself, I will no longer let how I look consume me. This year will see me embrace me, I will fuel my body with what it needs, I will love my body for what it is & I will treat my body like it deserves to be treated, for the amazing vessel it is. It’s not about being skinny, it’s about being strong, confident & ultimately happy ❤️

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@eliseknowels сделан со вкусом и по оформлению напоминает один из множества блогов об идеальной жизни. Но на самом деле таковым не является: под фильтрами инстаграма скрывается настоящая жизнь с детьми — такая, какая есть. С радостями, беспорядком, юмором и усталостью.

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